Even though they are strong, tough and masculine, men also sometimes need to hear a few compliments to see and appreciate their work and contribution.
So a little "thank you" or "I love you" can mean a lot in a relationship.
"I love you"
No matter how courageous, big and strong he is, every man, even if not often, still wants to hear these magic words: “I love you.”
They also enjoy hugs, kisses and want to cuddle from time to time.
"I appreciate what you do"
Men need confirmation that they are good heads of families.
Anything less than this will make them feel bad, inadequate, and insecure because they feel like they haven't provided their loved ones with what they need.
So every time you let them know that their work is seen and appreciated, it will mean a lot to them.
"You are the best husband/dad/boyfriend"
It's not about ego boosting, it's about stating the obvious every now and then. When a man is good at his roles, such praise only encourages him to keep trying.
"I value you as a real man"
As with number one, every man should feel like a man.
And it's not about stimulating the ego, it's about verbally affirming something about his character, like work ethic, honesty, integrity, etc. Or in the case of success, like receiving a bonus, a promotion, or something mundane like taking out the trash without being reminded.
"I respect you"
As men age, it is more important to be respected out of love, because of their characteristics and the efforts they have put into their families, than because of their ego and their own sense of grandeur.
It boosts their self-confidence and gives them extra energy to feel that someone respects them or admires their exploits and successes. Especially when it comes to people they love and are close to.
"Go do whatever you want" or "Let's do something together that will make you happy"
When they hear something like this from their women, men feel like they are 13 again and rush towards something they often don't have time for.
For some it's to have a drink with friends, for others it's to play computer games, and if they decide to just lie down and sleep a little this afternoon, that will be fine too.
The freedom a person gains in this way often has a long-term positive impact on him and his daily responsibilities.
"You look fantastic"
It's not hard to guess. After years of dating, men like to be reminded that they are still desirable.
Here and there, a compliment will boost his self-confidence, especially if he is struggling with his appearance and goes to the gym, is actively involved in sports or tries out a new look (hairstyle or beard). A compliment will be a reward for a man’s efforts.
"I'm listening to you..."
Men and women communicate differently. For example, when they have different opinions, a woman will be more willing than a man to sit down and talk through arguments. On the other hand, men often seek solitude and the opportunity to think about their views when they disagree. In any case, they like to say that when they are ready, their partners will listen to them.
"Thank you"
Like women, men like to receive validation and recognition for the efforts they put into achieving or doing something. “Thank you” is a clear and direct phrase that lets you know that someone’s work is seen and appreciated.
"I believe you"
There is nothing more important than trust. Believing in someone to the point that you are willing to put your life in their hands and trust that everything will be okay is the goal of any relationship.
Previously we talked about how to survive betrayal .
