Partners or spouses can complement each other in some way and even make up for some deficiency, but it is not a fact that their life can be called happy.
In such cases, experts talk about episodic happiness. We can talk about idyll only if we are talking about healthy relationships.
Experts talk about the signs of a healthy relationship, what makes it so great, and why people sometimes avoid it.
In such cases, everything can really resemble an idyll. When two people get along without quarrels and scandals. But most people insist that this does not happen and that it is boring.
Interest in partner's life
In a healthy relationship, there is a principle of non-interference and non-imposition of opinions on the partner. There can be no talk of control or criticism.
But you need to grow up to this level. It is important to remember that your other half is a person, an individual, after all, with their own goals and interests.
Caution towards feelings
It's good when a man and a woman know each other's weaknesses and avoid them. Otherwise, the relationship becomes toxic when one manipulates the weaknesses of the other.
Trust and Faith
If you don't trust each other, it's impossible to build something strong and long-term. But to do this, you need to be honest with yourself and your partner.
Forgiveness without conditions
Normal is when you forgive and forget, and not remember at a convenient opportunity. This is possible when the one asking for forgiveness realizes the cost of his mistake. The one forgiving - the significance of his action for himself and the partner.
Sincere gratitude
Happy people are content to be together. They draw strength and support from each other. Asking for more is not in their rules.
Common interests
Interests can be personal – we have already discussed this. But at the same time there should be common interests and common values. At least an understanding of good and evil, plans for the future, etc.
Wish
Sexual relations should not be excluded except in cases when attraction fades for natural reasons. Until then, happy people try to be attractive to each other.
Illusions
There is no need to have illusions that someone has it better than you. All events that happen in life, including negative experiences, partners should perceive as experience, development and growth.
Love
In a healthy relationship, it is present everywhere and encourages us to explore each other, always moving towards each other.
Earlier we talked about how to break up without remaining enemies .
