To some extent, family quarrels are normal.
But if their number scares you, it’s time to learn about the reasons for the conflicts, which ADVICE.NEWS shares.
Why do people quarrel?
People quarrel because of lack of attention and help.
This is a common problem when family members want to be understood and heard.
It often happens that they themselves do not ask for sympathy or help, believing that this can be easily guessed just by looking at them.
People often quarrel because someone has spoiled their mood or because they are irritated by work, especially if the person is overly emotional or has low self-esteem.
Arguments are triggered by secondary emotions, such as anger or coldness, that mask our deeper feelings: fear of abandonment, helplessness, or a desire for contact and connection.
In addition, people often quarrel because of fear of losing each other or because of stress.
Why Fighting Is Good
Sometimes couples try to strengthen their relationship by eliminating arguments. But the opposite happens.
People who avoid conflict burn out and become withdrawn much faster.
It's as if they allow the situation to grow to such proportions that it can no longer be resolved.
Earlier we talked about how modern people choose their life partner .
