It is not for nothing that there is an opinion that a man and a woman are creatures from different planets. Even if your gentleman has an ideal character, you may still have certain disagreements and difficult situations in your relationship with him.
Moreover, they can appear both at the very beginning of the relationship and after you become closer and start living as one family.
However, this is not a reason for worry and grief. Below are listed the most common problems in relationships with men, and also given advice on how to solve them.
Mismanagement
He doesn't help around the house. If you come home tired from work, of course you want a man to take on at least some of the housework. But instead of offering to help you, he calmly watches TV.
Men very rarely help around the house on their own initiative - they wait until they are told what exactly needs to be done. So if you ask him to go to the store for groceries or take out the trash, he will probably not refuse.
Tendency towards monogamy
He follows the beautiful women with his eyes. You can clearly see that he is not indifferent to busty, long-legged beauties.
Of course, such observations do not make you happy and even make you jealous.
Nature itself has created men in such a way that they always notice female beauty. It should be understood that if a guy looks with admiration at a passing beauty, this does not mean that he is going to start an affair with her. So try to moderate your jealousy.
Spending big on hobbies
He spends a lot of money on his favorite computer, constantly buying some attachments and parts for it. You would like him to manage your common budget more rationally, to buy something useful for the household more often.
As we know, not only children but also adults have their own toys and entertainment. Before you scold a man for buying a game console, first calculate how much money you spend on beauty salons, cosmetics and clothes.
Emotional restraint
You won't get compliments or sweet words from him. You would really like to hear declarations of love from your man from time to time, as well as words about how he has never met anyone more beautiful than you. But for some reason he doesn't touch on these topics.
It should be understood that men, unlike women, are not too inclined to tenderness and sentimentality. Nature has endowed them with emotional restraint. Therefore, their attitude should be judged not by words, but by actions.
Bachelor parties
He meets up with friends from time to time to "have a beer" - and ends up coming home tipsy at 2am. You don't like that kind of thing.
Almost all men, even the most correct and serious ones, like to chat with friends and relieve accumulated nervous tension with the help of alcohol. Therefore, you should only sound the alarm if such meetings happen too often.
Commanding manners
He likes to command and expects you to obey. And you would like to build a relationship on equal terms. On this basis, conflicts periodically occur.
Men are naturally inclined to leadership. They strive to dominate and subjugate - this is embedded in them at an instinctive level. Therefore, a wise and loving woman knows that her beloved man should sometimes give in, and not argue with him over trifles.
Earlier we talked about the rules by which men live .
