Resentment in marriage is not such a rare event: many people accumulate negative emotions.
However, this approach cannot exactly be called productive.
Over time, suppressed negative emotions begin to have a destructive impact on relationships, experts say.
How to properly deal with resentment towards your husband
He can't read minds.
Sometimes it seems to you that a man is obliged to guess all your desires and preferences, but it is unlikely that your spouse can read minds.
Sometimes women are offended by the fact that their husband did not live up to their expectations, which the man did not even suspect.
If you want to improve your relationship and get rid of resentments, then try to talk about what you want.
Conversations
Many people simply do not talk about what they do not like. Instead, a person prefers to "steam" in their negative emotions until the moment they "boil".
There is no need to let the situation get to this point.
There are no problems that cannot be solved with honest conversation.
Be delicate
If you start making claims to a man in an offensive or aggressive manner, then your spouse will start to defend himself, offending you even more.
Therefore, you need to choose a more productive path.
Try to avoid unnecessary emotionality and insults during the conversation.
Previously, we talked about why women should not build relationships with a man who is significantly younger than them .
