With all the advantages and "bonuses" that dating sites give us, they also have disadvantages.
If you know about them in advance, you can model your behavior to be more correct and potentially successful.
What disadvantages are worth remembering?
For women - the illusion of being in demand
When any girl registers on a dating site, she finds herself literally inundated with messages from different men. But don't be fooled: in most cases, these fans don't want anything other than virtual reality communication or one-time meetings.
However, such attention creates the illusion of being in demand, experts note. As a result, the woman develops an unjustifiably high self-esteem and begins to "turn down" quite decent men, believing that she has hundreds of options.
You need to understand that if in reality men do not show such persistent and active interest in you, then you should not consider everyone to be simply indecisive.
Some men write to everyone in the hope that at least someone will respond to their “call”.
Therefore, you need to focus on finding a worthy man, and not waste your energy on correspondence that will lead nowhere.
For men - the illusion of choice
When the average man sees the profiles of hundreds of attractive women, he is under the illusion that each one is ready to build a relationship with him.
But this is far from true.
Every lady has her own list of requirements that you may not meet.
If a woman has a profile on a dating site, it does not mean that she is ready to meet with everyone who writes to her. Therefore, do not be mistaken that all the ladies are waiting exclusively for you.
Waste of time
Many people who initially signed up to find a real life partner end up wasting their time on people who don't need it.
Some people just like texting, but they don't really need to meet or have a relationship. So don't waste your time on long text messages: it almost never leads to anything.
Earlier we talked about the mistakes women most often make when communicating with men .
