It is generally accepted that girls value relationships more than men.
They are afraid to say something unnecessary to their chosen ones, to hurt their dignity. But this is nothing more than a myth.
Men are also afraid of hurting their other halves with any straightforward phrases.
The article will tell you what expressions guys try to avoid in conversations with their chosen ones.
"You show almost no initiative."
Being the initiator in a relationship is not only a man's prerogative. It should come from both partners equally.
Perhaps girls should give the reins to guys only at the candy-bouquet stage. But in established relationships this should not be allowed.
Men also sometimes want to feel desired, to see how their beloved tries and shows care, charms and seduces.
However, not all representatives of the stronger half of humanity dare to say this out loud.
"You stopped taking care of yourself"
Guys notice a lot more than they say. This applies to girls' appearance.
They will not point fingers at the shortcomings of their chosen ones, such as hair removal that was not done on time or an overgrown, sloppy manicure.
But their silence does not always mean that they do not care. By the way, girls without a drop of embarrassment point out to guys things that do not correspond to their ideas about aesthetics.
"I don't see any difference between the dresses"
Young people love with their eyes and this is an indisputable fact. But they tend to perceive the image as a whole, and not a separate thing, for example, a dress.
They don't worry about what their significant other is wearing. Men would gladly hand over their credit cards and send their loved ones shopping alone.
But they do it rarely, so as not to offend them. Besides, guys understand that girls dress up not for them, but for their girlfriends, colleagues, acquaintances.
"Don't flirt with other guys"
The possessive nature of men does not allow them to calmly accept the light flirting of their chosen ones towards others.
Girls often need to put themselves in their boyfriends' shoes to understand their feelings at that moment. Yes, jealousy may be exaggerated and a girl's smile towards some acquaintance means nothing at all. But they don't like to see such a picture, and they can't say it, so as not to provoke a quarrel.
"What are you hiding under your headache?"
Women think they have come up with a great way to shirk their marital duties with fatigue and headaches.
Men can come up with a lot of unpleasant options that girls hide from them, which will have a negative impact on the relationship.
It is much easier to tell the truth: "I just don't feel like it." And arrange a romantic surprise on the weekend and make up for the "time off." It is better to discuss issues concerning the intimate sphere of a couple's life openly. Otherwise, it can put the relationship at risk.
Men are very tactful. They accept the appearance and behavior of their chosen ones as they are and do not cling to insignificant details. Although they want to express their opinion.
Previously, we talked about how to prepare for meeting your partner’s parents.
