In modern society, you can often hear that women themselves meet men they like, call them, write to them and otherwise show initiative.
One gets the impression that this is a completely normal situation.
Is it worth doing this?
Experts note that in this matter, each girl can decide for herself, based on what she sees as an ideal relationship.
If you like being in charge, then it is quite possible to take the initiative. However, it is worth understanding that not all men will appreciate this approach.
Most often, passive men who like it when others decide everything for them are calm about women's initiative.
If you like men who are ready to show enthusiasm and "lead" in a relationship, then initiative may not work with them.
Why It's Not Always Worth Taking Initiative
It is important to understand that men may not get acquainted with a girl or not write to her for only one reason: they do not want to. If you take the initiative, they will respond to you out of politeness.
It is even possible to form a couple for some time, but such a union is unlikely to be strong.
However, it is always worth trusting your intuition: it is quite possible that you liked a shy man who is afraid to make the first move.
Earlier we talked about why you shouldn’t forbid your husband from communicating with his friends .