Sometimes we end up alone not because we lack external features, a sense of humor, or because we don’t know how to run a household.
The reason may be much more prosaic: we simply do not know how to build relationships correctly due to a lack of basic knowledge in the field of male psychology.
It may seem to us that we are simply defending our boundaries, explaining our life position or demonstrating our principles. In reality, we are doing everything to push a man away. The words we mindlessly pronounce play a significant role in this.
What 4 phrases can turn a partner away from us
"You have to provide for me"
After women's incomes began to grow rapidly, it is better not to say this phrase. Ladies are pleased that men care about them and provide for them.
But they are not obliged to do this.
As soon as a man hears such a phrase, he simply loses the desire to do anything for the woman to whom he “owes”.
"But other men..."
The so-called "positive example" method never works, because no one likes to be compared to others.
If you want a man to accumulate irritation, then say it more often. If your goal is to motivate your partner, then look for more correct methods of influence, experts believe.
"You never..."
It doesn't matter what you talk about in this context. Men (like all people) don't like such generalizations. Instead of using such phrases ("You never listen to me", "You never help me", etc.), it's worth tactfully and gently talking about your desires.
For example: "I would appreciate it if you listened to me" and "I would like you to help me with this."
"I forbid"
This phrase is hated by everyone since childhood. A man is no longer a child, so you have no right to forbid him anything.
If you start using such an expression on a regular basis, then the man, on the contrary, will start showing interest in the forbidden fruit.
Earlier we talked about what women’s actions no man will forgive .
