Many modern women do not see a problem in getting to know a man they like on their own.
But you still shouldn't do this.
Even if your relationship can work out, the man will always behave passively and without initiative.
Why You Shouldn't Meet Men on Your Own
You don't know if he has interest
It is important to understand that if a man really likes a girl, he will find the strength to get to know her. If this "fire" does not arise, he is unlikely to be active.
Women often explain such a "slow reaction" by shyness, but this is self-deception: a man will always find a way to start a dialogue with someone who has really impressed him.
Unfree men
Sometimes it happens that we like a person who already has a relationship. That is why he does not take the initiative in getting to know us.
To avoid getting into such an unpleasant situation, it is better not to introduce yourself first.
A man without initiative
There is a category of men who are almost proud of the fact that they themselves do not make efforts to find girls. Such admirers may respond to your sympathy, but the relationship will not be the best.
Such men are often lacking initiative. It will be very difficult to build a healthy relationship with them, experts believe.
A man will not value such a relationship.
Any man will be pleased that a woman met them herself. However, we should not forget about our instincts. Representatives of the stronger sex will value only those relationships for which he tried and took active steps.
If you are the one getting to know each other, then the value will be appropriate.