Some are successful in finding their future husbands on the sites, while other women complain that they come across unpleasant men.
The thing is that such communication implies its own special rules that should be followed.
What are the most common mistakes we make?
We are overstating the requirements
Sometimes we think that this approach is correct, since it allows us to filter out unsuitable candidates. However, even worthy men can be scared off by the inflated demands of a stranger.
Instead of pursuing a woman they like in appearance, they will pass by and continue their search.
Long-term communication on the network
We think that this will allow us to get to know the person better, but this is a mistake. Telephone conversations and correspondence are not comparable to personal communication.
Therefore, experts do not recommend starting a long correspondence so as not to waste your time.
We start relationships before a man does
Some women start acting like they are already in a relationship before the first date. This is a big mistake.
Therefore, it is worth letting things develop naturally. Don't invent relationships that don't exist. In this case, you will get rid of disappointment.
You write to men yourself
Many women will be outraged by this recommendation, because in the modern world they are trying to erase the boundaries between male and female behavior.
Some teach girls to write to candidates they like themselves. This is a mistake. Yes, perhaps the man will answer you and even agree to a meeting, but nothing worthy will come of it.
Men will not value too much what they got without any struggle, experts say.
Using inappropriate photos
The point of using photos on dating sites is to give the most accurate representation possible regarding your appearance and body type.
Therefore, you should not post photos from five years ago or the work of professional photographers. In this case, disappointment on the first date will be inevitable.
