Relationships play a key role in our lives.
They help us feel happy and fulfilled, and also give us the opportunity to develop and reach new heights.
In addition, good relationships can be a source of inspiration and motivation to achieve goals.
However, not all relationships go smoothly. Sometimes there are conflicts, misunderstandings, and even breakups. It is important to understand that these problems are part of the relationship development process and should not be feared. It is necessary to learn to listen and understand each other, seek compromises, and work on your shortcomings.
1. You underestimate yourself
If men treat you badly, it speaks of your lack of self-confidence.
"A man will not respect a woman who allows him to be disrespectful to her," explains trainer Dave Elliott on his blog.
2. There is too much male energy in a woman.
Successful women suppress their femininity with male energy, which helps them in their careers. They cope with everything themselves, which makes men feel uncomfortable.
3. A woman does not understand her man
"Every woman should try to understand her man and appreciate him. Only then will a man do everything possible to make a woman feel like a queen," Elliott adds.
4. When a woman tries to change a man
This could be criticism of clothing, ridicule of appearance, but also specific behavior or skills.
Each of us wants to be appreciated for who we are, and not insulted or humiliated for our “shortcomings.”
Before giving your advice, think about whether the other person needs such advice.
5. When women don't appreciate what men do for them
Self-centered women take luxurious drinks, expensive dinners, and stays in beautiful places for granted, but leave their partners constantly insecure.
Basically, they are just showing that they are only with them for the gifts and the lifestyle.
Exploiting others for one's own gain is not only unattractive, it is inexcusable.
6. Every man for himself
Men are usually determined to protect and provide for their loved ones. They are proud of this and often risk their health or life for this.
This is also why older men become depressed or die prematurely after retirement because they no longer feel needed. These two things are part of the male energy and are often a matter of life and death for them.
The essence of femininity is the innate desire to take care of your man. A healthy relationship is not about "taking." Each must understand the love language of the partner to see if the other truly appreciates everything the other does.
7. When a woman is overly dramatic
Men are logical and rational, proving their worth by solving problems. When they are not working, they are usually carefree. If men do not see potential benefits, they do not waste their efforts.
Men quickly become bored with the drama that occurs during women's emotional outbursts.
8. Lack of trust
If a man is thinking about a future with a woman, he must believe that she respects and supports him.
A man must trust his wife and thus believe that she also has the best intentions towards him.
9. Women's rush to commitment and marriage too quickly
Encoded in male DNA is an instinct that prefers the concept of freedom. If a woman wants to start a relationship with a man too early, he will instinctively distance himself.
"So the key to success is timing. Don't try to force a man to commit and deprive him of his freedom from the very beginning. Leave this decision to him," the expert adds.
10. Accepting another as a competitor
Each of us in a relationship needs to feel appreciated and appreciated by the other person for the love they share. It's about finding someone who "gets" you and is on the same page.
