Throughout life, a person changes. This can happen for the better or for the worse, he can either degrade or develop.
Naturally, everyone wants the latter, everyone wants to become better. To do this, an individual can work on himself, on acquiring some character traits, qualities. He will also engage in his education, which will benefit him.
But all this may not play any role if mistakes are made in the process of personal growth or if there are factors that hinder it. These should be discussed in detail.
Guilt
A person can be depressed, his psychological state can worsen. He will constantly think about how to correct what was done, how to influence it. But this is not always necessary.
He needs to move forward, and simply forget about something. If you only fix mistakes, you can start marking time and not improve for years.
Envy
It paralyzes, it makes you waste your emotions on watching others, on tormenting yourself with thoughts about not being able to achieve something.
You can watch other people's successes, it can even be useful. It is important not to wish evil, but to be inspired, to motivate yourself. In any other case, envy will be destructive.
Self-deception
It leads to disappointment in any case. A person can have illusions about his abilities, he can think that he is capable of something or not.
If any of this is not true, he will face reality one day anyway. He will be annoyed, and he may lose the desire to move on at all.
Positive thinking
Yes, this can also be destructive. A person can always be positive, which is dangerous for him and bad. The whole point is that he will not notice real problems, will ignore many things that are actually important.
In this situation, he will hardly be able to achieve anything, to become better, since he will not work on himself at all.
These factors should be eliminated, such mistakes should not be made. In this case, developing and growing above yourself will work out well.
