Responsibility and independence are the characteristics that are inherent in an adult who is able to manage his life. He always demonstrates them, tries not to change tactics in any situation.
Due to this, he achieves heights. It is pleasant to communicate with him, to do business with him, which those around him always note. But not everyone in adulthood corresponds to everything said.
Another individual may not make decisions, or cope with problems. He can be recognized by several signs.
Physical disappearance
It happens at the most crucial moment, when you need to voice your opinion, make some agreements. A person can simply disappear, stop making contact.
This speaks not only of the inability to make decisions. Such behavior is evidence that the individual is also afraid to speak about his condition.
Chatter
A person can pronounce a huge number of words, can chatter constantly, can express himself in a clever way, and find associations.
He can also jump from one topic to another, and get confused in what he said. All this speaks of an unwillingness to touch on painful topics, to answer the question clearly.
Silence
The individual may not hide physically, but he will not make contact. He will listen to the interlocutor, will answer some questions in monosyllables, will not give any specifics.
This way he will provoke the accumulation of tension in the relationship, because key issues will not be resolved. But he will like this more than voicing a specific solution.
Redirection
The individual will not speak directly about his dissatisfaction. He will complain to friends, spouse or someone else close to him about what does not suit him, but he will never discuss the problem with those whom it directly concerns.
He will not want to see anyone's reaction, to approach closely the discussion of issues that worry him.
Such signs indicate someone who is not determined, who cannot decide on an answer. Dealing with such an individual is always incredibly difficult.
