Emotional intelligence is a concept that is unfamiliar to some, but someone has heard about it. If it is well developed, a person will be able to build relationships and maintain them.
He will understand himself, his feelings. It will seem to anyone that he is given all this, but in reality it may not be so.
An individual may not realize that his emotional intelligence is actually low, but that is exactly what he will be. He will be able to determine this. If he notices several signs in himself.
No long term relationships
A person can start communicating, can be friends with someone, have an affair. But he will not be able to maintain all this for a long time. All his relationships will quickly fall apart, which will not be a coincidence.
The problem will be that with low emotional intelligence it will be difficult to respond to words, to reciprocate something. And without mutual exchange, the union will never be able to exist.
No self-knowledge
A person with low emotional intelligence will be self-focused and will try everything on himself. But at the same time, he will not understand himself, he will not know himself well.
He will not understand his feelings, he will not listen to them. This will give such a sad result.
He is always right
Admitting guilt will be impossible for an individual with low emotional intelligence. He will be categorical on any issue, will not accept criticism, will not understand the situation.
He will consider himself important, but he will prefer to ignore others and their points of view. Because of this, communication with him will be exhausting, not invigorating.
It's the others' fault
If failures occur, it will not occur to a person to look for reasons in his behavior. He will say that colleagues, relatives, teachers are to blame.
But he will never talk about his mistakes, because he will not even think that he made them.
Such signs clearly indicate low emotional intelligence. They should be taken into account in order to start changing in time, to develop the named feature.
