Romantic relationships need work to last. Any girl has heard about this and knows it.
She tries to do this, invests resources in developing a romance with a young man. She does not forget that you can't pull the blanket over yourself all the time, that you need to give in, negotiate. Such tactics can and should be used, but not in all situations.
There are things in a relationship that a young lady should never agree to. Here are a few.
Attempts to belittle
A man may speak unflatteringly about his beloved's hobbies and work. He may claim that all her activities are boring, that she does nothing important or worthwhile.
He may demand that the lady quit her job, hobbies, and may insist that she devote herself to what he offers. It is not worth agreeing to such “compromises”, since this way you can simply lose yourself, lose your individuality.
There are conflicting views on the future
The point is that they differ in essential moments, questions. A lady should not break herself, agree to spend time with children, to give birth to many of them, to give up a career, if she herself does not want all this.
All these things are global, you can't just forget about them and change. You won't be able to remake yourself, but you will definitely be able to find someone who has similar views.
A man decides who to communicate with
He will dictate to the lady with whom to maintain relationships, with which acquaintances to break them off. You should not tolerate such things. The fact is that a partner who behaves in this way is jealous.
Gradually, he will make the girl's social circle minimal, and may even completely isolate her from society. It is unlikely that she is tempted by the prospect of being submissive throughout her life.
There are rules only for girls
A lady may have a lot of prohibitions. A man may not allow her to go to clubs with her friends, he may forbid her to dress a certain way.
At the same time, he will violate his own prohibitions. As a result, the rules will exist only for the girl, freedom will be limited only to her.
All this is not acceptable in a romantic relationship. If all this takes place, then it is advisable for the lady to end it, since it can only cause harm to her in the long term, and not bring happiness.
