The environment greatly influences a person, his views, perception of what is happening around. It is reasonable to assume that the choice of who to communicate with, spend free time with, should be taken very seriously.
An individual cannot like every person: someone will evoke negative emotions, irritate with their words and behavior, someone will not be liked just like that, without any reason.
There are people, communication with whom does not cause any negative feelings or any inconvenience. But this is only at first glance. There are some categories of people, interaction with whom, if it has not brought anything bad so far, will definitely cause a lot of trouble and suffering in the future.
You will be able to identify such individuals in your environment if you are familiar with the types of people whose communication may have negative consequences for you.
Not interested in you
Such a comrade will not ask about what is happening at your work, in your personal life. But he will talk about himself very willingly, will gladly answer all the questions that you ask him on the topic that he wants to discuss.
During the meeting, you may feel as if you are at an interview as a potential employer: you are asking questions, and the other person is only answering.
Pessimist
Of course, all people have days when their mood is not at its highest level, when they are overcome by apathy and passivity.
But if your friend constantly refuses to have fun, for example, going to the cinema, to an exhibition, to a cafe, and expresses dissatisfaction at any reason, then such communication can negatively affect your mood and psychological state.
Energy vampire
After such communication, you feel very tired, even though you did not do anything exhausting. Probably, such a person simply told you too much negative, or maybe used you for his own purposes.
In the case of use, the appearance of fatigue is a common occurrence, because when you do something, you spend energy, but you cannot restore the balance, since nothing was offered in return.
Beggar
If a friend once asked for a loan and then repaid the debt on time, then you shouldn’t dwell on it: such a situation doesn’t mean anything bad.
If requests to lend something or borrow money become regular, then you need to think about how appropriate it is to continue a friendship that is accompanied by the actual maintenance of your comrade.
Gossip
You can tell something about someone without going into small details or judging them. But if talking about mutual friends behind their backs becomes the norm, then you should be careful.
It's not even about moral principles. Think about the fact that your friend can say the same thing to other people and about you.
Smart guy
When your environment consists of smart and successful people, there is nothing terrible about it. It is good that you communicate with those from whom you can adopt something, learn something.
But if a person constantly corrects, points out even the smallest flaws in work, speech, and so on, then you need to understand that at your expense he is simply asserting himself.
Egoist
Such a friend will not provide help or assistance in difficult times. He will not even sympathize.
But if he needs help, he will certainly ask for it and insist that they help him cope with his troubles.
Doesn't accept your successes
He will give many arguments in favor of why you should not do something, that luck was completely random. In such cases, you can say that you are communicating with an envious person.
A true friend will always praise you and rejoice with you when you talk about your latest achievement or new hobby.
At first, many things may not be noticed, ignored. But over time, they will manifest themselves more and more often, becoming very noticeable. You don't need to think that your friend will change, change his attitude towards you. It is better to end such relationships before they go too far.
