Divorce is almost always stress and a broken heart for one of the partners. In rare cases, when partners realize that they are ruining each other's lives, it is a great opportunity to start from scratch.
And if someone thinks that divorce is always preceded by infidelity, then he is mistaken.
Researchers have named 4 reasons that most often lead to separation or divorce, and adultery is not on this list.
Reason one: lack of communication
One of the partners, under pressure from negative thoughts that it is completely impossible to communicate with the other half, may begin to distance themselves.
This is preceded by disappointment, helplessness, a consumerist attitude towards each other and a lack of mutual understanding.
But if you don’t dwell on the negative, but try to understand what the reason is and what’s preventing you from finding a common language, then overall you can save the relationship.
Reason two: old conflicts
Quarrels and disagreements are not yet a reason for divorce. It is bad when they remain unresolved, and partners accumulate resentment after each squabble.
The same thing happens when a husband and wife try to avoid conflicts, also accumulating discontent.
But it all comes down to one thing: such people do not know how to solve complex problems, and disputes between them usually end in complaints and insults.
Reason three: alienation
This feeling occurs when there is a lack of emotional and physical closeness. Usually, such people complain to friends and relatives about loneliness.
One way or another, partners gradually turn into cohabitants.
Reason 4: Lack of mutual interests
Harmonious relationships are based on mutual respect for each other's interests.
There should be no misunderstandings in matters of finance, career, planning, personal life.
In all these and other areas, partners must work together, discussing and finding the ideal solution.
For reference
Divorce is the official dissolution of a valid marriage between spouses. It should be distinguished from the procedure for recognizing a marriage as invalid, when a marriage ends due to the death of one of the spouses.
