The situation in which parents tell their children about some debts cannot be ignored.
It may be fair to criticize someone for not paying enough attention, but criticizing someone for unfulfilled expectations, choice of profession or life partner is too much.
According to experts, it is not always possible to say that an adult child owes something to his elderly parents.
Debt talk
This topic is often said to be raised by older people who are faced with unfulfilled expectations.
In such a situation, demanding anything from children as compensation is inappropriate.
The fact is that the man and woman at one time made the decision to have children themselves and did not ask anyone about it; they did not enter into any agreement with the future children.
At the same time, they have the responsibility to cover all the needs for the upbringing and development of children, to give them everything they need, support, love and care.
In other words, the children did not ask anyone to give birth to them, and the parents by default agreed to give them everything they were capable of at that moment.
What do hints of debt mean?
1. It is quite possible that behind these words there is a reproach that children have become inattentive and ungrateful towards those closest to them.
2. But if reproaches arise during regular communication, then in the parents’ words, specialists see dissatisfaction with life or an inability to build it independently.
3. Also, experts do not rule out the inability of adults to take responsibility for their lives, unwillingness to let go of a child, or an infantile position.
