We sometimes forget that no one is born with a "hardwired program".
Therefore, people become losers mainly because of negative experiences they had in childhood.
What mistakes should adults avoid?
Constant comparisons with other children are not in the child's favor
It is unlikely that anyone will like to constantly hear about how wonderful, smart, talented and successful everyone around them is. The child begins to get the impression that everyone else is much better.
Therefore, children may stop trying, resigning themselves to the role of a loser.
You do nothing for the child's development.
Even if a person has innate talent and abilities, ignoring them will not lead to anything good. Therefore, it is worth taking care of children's talents in a timely manner.
If you destroy a child's abilities, he may stop believing in himself.
Authoritarian parenting style
Don't put too much pressure on children. Otherwise, they will get used to being weak and spineless. Constant unquestioning obedience to parents will leave a strong imprint on the child's personality, making him a loser.
