Does your child not listen to you, ignoring all requests and rules you have established?
The situation can be corrected. And it is not as difficult as it may seem at first glance.
It turns out that to turn a stubborn child into a docile one, you only need to follow 3 rules.
Create a list of clear and achievable rules
The following fact is interesting: many children become disobedient not because of stubbornness and willfulness, but because of the confusion of rules.
Some children simply do not understand what exactly their parents want from them.
At some point, boys and girls come to the conclusion that it is impossible to please mom and dad anyway. Hence the disobedience.
Make a clear list of understandable and reasonable rules of behavior that the child is able to follow.
In this case, it will be much easier for both you and your child.
Prohibitions must always remain relevant
Don't act according to the principle: "I'll allow it today and forbid it tomorrow."
The rules should always apply. Exceptions are possible, but they should be discussed in advance: explain to the child under what conditions the ban can be temporarily lifted.
There is another important point: all family members should know about the restrictions for the child. It should not be that the mother forbids the child to do something, and the grandmother allows it.
Parents should be an example
And, of course, parental example is very important for every child.
If you forbade your child to do something and then broke this rule yourself, then don’t be surprised if your child becomes disobedient.
