Communication with children must be subject to special rules in order to be as productive as possible.
To do this, you need to avoid some shortcomings so that difficulties and misunderstandings do not arise.
What errors are we talking about?
Friendly conversations
There should be a clear hierarchical line between parents and children, so friendly conversations should be excluded. This is a very controversial trend in raising children.
On the one hand, we become closer to our children. But on the other hand, the child may stop obeying, since "friends" cannot have parental authority.
Constant pressure
It is difficult to call communication productive if parents constantly put pressure on their child. In such cases, conversations become difficult and unpleasant.
The tone of the conversation does not always have to be serious and instructive.
Monologue of parents
If children are not provided with lines in the dialogue, then such a conversation cannot be called useful and properly constructed. It is clear that adults are trying to strengthen their positions, but children should also take part in the dialogue.
