Sometimes we notice that children are afraid to share their own opinions with us, trying to keep their thoughts to themselves.
This is not the best habit, because it can last a lifetime.
There may be many reasons for such behavior. Sometimes the parents are to blame, who "press" with their own authority and do not allow disputes. Sometimes the reason is in the teachers, who laugh at the child's opinion in front of all the children.
However, it is always possible to cope with this problem.
What tricks will help with this?
Involve your child in conversations
You can always find a controversial or ambiguous situation and try to involve the child in the dialogue. Let him know that you really want to listen to his opinion and take it into account.
You can also watch movies or read books and then start the discussion. Try to ask questions that will help the child open up and start a dialogue.
Discussion clubs
Sometimes such forms of activity exist in schools, but sometimes they have to be found outside the walls of the educational institution. This is a great way to cope with the fear of public speaking.
Children begin to actively share their own thoughts and defend their position using logic and arguments. This skill can be called one of the most valuable for adult life.
