Adults who had difficult relationships with their own parents as children try to avoid their mistakes.
Therefore, there is an excessive closeness with the child, which often develops into friendship.
At first glance, it may seem that this is a wonderful format for relationships with children. But it is not.
Why You Shouldn't Be Friends With Your Own Child
You are losing authority
Parents must have unconditional authority in the eyes of the child. In this case, there will be no questions about discipline and obedience.
However, in a friendly format this is impossible.
Friends have equal rights, so the child simply will not listen to you.
Misunderstanding
Children may not understand who you really are, how to treat you, what your role and main function are. Therefore, do not confuse the child.
Build warm and trusting relationships, but don't forget to set boundaries.
Otherwise, it will be extremely difficult for you to regain your authority as a parent in the eyes of your child.
