It is childhood that determines a person's success in adulthood. In this regard, everything depends on self-esteem.
If there is a problem, it is easy to notice. But not every parent knows how to help a child in this regard.
In addition to general advice – observe interests, help, stop yelling and scolding, there are specific recommendations from experts.
First, use the right words and phrases.
You can discuss this topic with your child and choose several conditional phrases that will become a slogan or tagline.
They will need to be repeated at least every day and at any convenient opportunity. By the way, the phrase that the child comes up with will reveal the secrets of his inner world.
Secondly, don’t skimp on compliments.
Praising and complimenting a child should also be done wisely. But these should not be routine phrases or something like "you are the smartest / most beautiful / talented".
Emphasize real qualities and merits, constantly remind about hidden opportunities, determination, etc.
Third, communicate with him as an equal.
You can raise your self-esteem very easily if you start communicating with your child as an equal, consulting with him, discussing some significant events.
This way you can make it clear that his opinion is important to you and that without it it will be difficult for you to make a decision.
Fourth, appreciate his work.
Any help provided by a child to an adult must be valuable and not only in material terms.
Don’t be shy about telling your friends and relatives about his help, and use his actions as an example.
Very useful for children's self-esteem.
Fifth, set goals and discuss achievements
Don't stop your child from dreaming or trying to make a good impression on adults. Let them know that any successes your child achieves make you happy.
Live by his interests, ask him what he dreams about and tell him how he can achieve his goal.
These simple tips will help boost your child's self-esteem, which will make him or her grow up to be a confident and goal-oriented person.
