Parents should not adopt the model of raising children that they have inherited from their past, much less raise children based on other people's advice.
Often this is how phrases and comments are born that essentially shake the air, but remain ineffective.
We will tell you which words and phrases in raising children should have been forgotten long ago as harmful advice.
"It's such a period"
You can hear such words in response to the fact that the child is growing up capricious or rude. Parents are reassured that everything will soon change, as soon as the difficult period ends.
In fact, the problem may get worse with age if you don’t start explaining now how not to behave.
"It has to be this way!" or "I said so!"
A typical response from parents to children who do not want to do what their parents tell them to do. But in reality, formalism will lead to misunderstanding.
Therefore, instead of trying to achieve meaningless execution of a command, it is necessary to develop in children awareness and responsibility for their actions.
"Counting to..."
It doesn't matter whether the parent is going to count to 3, 5 or 10 before taking action.
Maybe at the first stage the threat will work, but gradually you will have to either extend the bill or get used to the fact that the children do not pay attention to you.
Earlier we talked about how to make a child happy .
