Some babies are quite stubborn.
They often do what they think is right, without taking into account the opinion of their parents.
However, mom and dad can make sure that the child becomes obedient.
To do this, you need to follow certain rules. It also makes sense to pay attention to some psychological tricks.
So, how can you get your son or daughter to obey without resorting to yelling and punishment?
Speak in a language that the child understands
The baby will become more obedient if parents set clear rules and avoid flowery phrases.
Speak to your child clearly and concisely. This will make it easier for your child to understand what exactly you want from him.
Address your baby by name more often. When talking, be sure to look him in the eyes.
Criticize without raising your voice
If you need to criticize a child, do not shout under any circumstances.
Shouting is often ineffective in raising children. Babies tend to listen to people who speak calmly.
However, it is still necessary to emphasize certain phrases intonationally. But not by raising your voice.
To give up a large number of prohibitions
An abundance of prohibitions leads to the child simply stopping following the rules.
The thing is that it is difficult for a child to remember a large number of conditions. He comes to the conclusion that he has already managed to break something, so there is no point in following the rules.
Talk about your feelings
Did your child do something bad? Don't say, "You upset me." Instead, say, "I'm upset by your behavior."
This educational trick is very effective. The child does not feel that he is being blamed directly, so he is more willing to correct his mistakes.
Organize "competitions"
Replace the commanding tone with “competitions” as often as possible.
A simple example: you need your child to get ready for kindergarten faster. Don't say: "Hurry up, we're late because of you!"
It's better to say it like this: "Let's see who of us can get ready faster!"
Previously, 5 parental phrases were named that cause a child’s self-esteem to fall.
