How to regain a child's trust: 3 ways to resolve any conflict

25.04.2024 19:30

After children are punished for misbehavior or poor performance, before the realization of just retribution comes, the child may harbor a grudge.

You shouldn't let things slide in the hope that there will be a new day and a good mood will come with it.

Parents need to know how to regain a child’s trust so that he does not begin to be afraid of his own mom and dad.

Experts have named three simple techniques that will help restore your former harmony.

First of all, communication

There is no need to pretend to be an offended "grump" and wait for the child to come and confess on his own.

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It is much better for everyone if during dinner parents and children communicate and discuss the past day or make plans.

Such conversations need to be devoted at least 15 minutes a day so that children do not cease to feel parental love and care.

Secondly, family viewing

A great idea is to watch a good movie, photo albums or read a book with the whole family.

Later or during the process, you can discuss the actors' performance, the plot, or the author's idea. It is important to build a dialogue and hear everyone's opinion.

Third, stay open.

Children should be involved (where possible) in discussions of family plans, purchases, expenses, etc. At the same time, they should have the opportunity to speak out, suggest, and share experiences.

This will help children understand that their parents care about their participation, not their performance in school or their behavior.

Previously we talked about how to raise a disciplined child .

Igor Zur Author: Igor Zur Internet resource editor


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  1. First of all, communication
  2. Secondly, family viewing
  3. Third, stay open.