All parents dream of disciplined children, as this makes the upbringing process much easier.
But it is not always possible to achieve the cherished goal.
Many children grow up spoiled and disrespectful of adults, experts say.
What rules will help you achieve the desired results?
Education in this direction can begin as early as three years of age.
Of course, you shouldn't be extremely demanding and strict from an early age: the child will grow up insecure and constrained. However, at this age, you can already use the method of positive reinforcement of correct behavior.
The sooner you start to improve the discipline issue, the fewer problems you can expect in the future.
Follow your parenting line
You can't allow something today and then forbid it in a couple of days. This causes misunderstanding in the child. You need to make a list of rules of conduct and requirements in advance.
This will make it easier for the child to learn the system.
Always explain your rules and be open to dialogue.
It is much easier for a child to follow rules if he understands their validity. If the only argument he hears is "because I said so", then there will be no trust in the authority of the parents.
Therefore, try to maintain an open dialogue with your children.
Don't be an authoritarian adult
It is extremely difficult for children to grow up creative and imaginative with this style of upbringing. Yes, they will be obedient, but this may not have the most favorable effect on the development of the personality.
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