The climate in the family determines the health of the child, his future character and behavior no less than upbringing and education.
Therefore, parents need to think about how they solve their problems, get out of conflict situations and how the child spends every day in the family circle.
Here are some parenting mistakes that experts say are harmful to your child.
Firstly, it is not necessary to constantly quarrel
If a father and mother try to please the child in order to become the best parent, then sooner or later one of them will give in and the other will have to think about how to get the family out of the crisis.
Wouldn't it be better to share equally both the child's love and the family's workload?
Secondly, lack of coordination of actions
This happens when one person forbids drinking soda, and the other buys it, trying to give the child everything he lacks - there are plenty of examples.
As a result, the atmosphere in the family ceases to be stable, the child feels uncomfortable, tries to either maintain equal relations or choose someone’s side.
Thirdly, there is no need to conspire with the child
It is bad when a child becomes a witness to someone's secrets that he is forced to hide from one of the parents.
This is a bad example that essentially teaches the child to lie and pretend. This applies to everything: finances, personal relationships and other dubious matters.
Conclusion
Parents should develop a unified position on everything. At the same time, the child himself should not be a party to the conflict.
Earlier we told you how to quickly calm a crying child .
