Parents, of course, want their child to grow up obedient. But this is good only for the parents, not for the child himself.
A child who does his homework himself or is ready to help his parents, and a child who does everything he is told, are different people.
Why is this bad?
Experts explained why an “obedient” child is not always a good thing.
The future personality, instead of deciding how and what to do, what is interesting and what is not, simply obeys someone else’s will.
By imposing their own opinion on a child, parents and relatives believe that they will make his life successful.
Even if you really want to recommend something, think about alternative options that might interest the child.
The Importance of Choice
The main thing that a future adult must learn is to make informed choices and argue their point of view.
But with such assistants, instead of a persistent, purposeful person, a spineless and insecure citizen will grow up.
In addition, there is a risk that the child will not learn to say “no” when necessary.
Therefore, if children contradict adults and do what they think is right (within reasonable limits), it is not so bad.
Earlier we talked about the signs of a genius child .
