Low self-esteem in a child is a big problem that cannot be ignored.
ADVICE.NEWS suggests talking about the signs of low self-esteem in a child.
How to understand that a child has low self-esteem
Self-esteem may be low if a child avoids tasks without even trying to complete them.
This means that he is afraid of making a mistake and refuses to try in advance.
Explain that mistakes are a normal part of learning and any progress.
It is also worth paying attention to how quickly the child ends the game, admitting defeat at the slightest failure.
Lack of work ethic and demotivation are also often signs of low self-esteem.
In addition, a child may cheat or lie when he thinks he might lose.
This means that failure is a strong emotional shock.
What You Can Do On Your Own If Your Child Has Low Self-Esteem
Praise your child correctly. Don't use cliched phrases. Let your child know that you truly appreciate the effort and work he or she puts in.
For example, you may notice a certain interesting detail in a drawing.
It is also helpful to ask your child for advice or help on an equal basis so that the child realizes his or her importance in your eyes.
Encourage your child's initiative and support his or her desire to achieve. Don't discount any of your child's goals and dreams.
Advice should only be given when necessary.
Don't compare your child to other people. Comparisons are the biggest damage to self-esteem.
If you notice that your child has low self-esteem, this may be a reason to seek help from a psychologist.
Previously, we talked about how to understand that it’s time to change schools .
