Many parents face the problem of disobedience and misunderstanding on the part of their children, but this does not mean that the situation should be ignored.
If you "give up", everything will only get worse.
If you correctly determine the reason for your child’s disobedience, you will understand how you can correct your actions.
What are the main reasons?
Parents are too soft and kind
Children are able to analyze your behavior. If you too often demonstrate softness, compliance and cannot establish discipline, then the child, of course, will take advantage of this.
Therefore, you just need to add a little strictness. If you set rules and boundaries, the child will be aware of his level of responsibility, experts note.
You failed to gain authority in the eyes of the child
Older children become even more demanding of their parents. They consider themselves smarter, so they can afford to question the words of adults.
Authority is built over years, which is always important to remember. So try to remain an authoritative adult in the eyes of your children.
The parents spoiled the child
Many adults can often over-demonstrate their love and care towards a child. Children quickly understand this.
The child realizes that he can manipulate his parents.
Also, spoiled children understand that there will be no punishment for disobedience.
Therefore, it is extremely important to learn how to demonstrate your love correctly.
Earlier we talked about why it is much more difficult to raise modern children .
