A girl's happiness depends largely on her mother's love.
Care and support from a mother increases the chances that her daughter will not experience serious problems in adulthood.
But careless words can make the situation worse.
There are some very dangerous phrases. Many mothers often say them when talking to their daughters.
And in vain, because the consequences could be very serious.
"You are so special"
Don't turn your daughter into the "center of the universe."
Of course, parents can compliment the girl. But they shouldn't go too far.
Excessive praise can inflate a child's self-esteem. An arrogant girl will find it very difficult to interact with other people.
"You are ugly"
The opposite situation is also bad, when a girl is criticized. Criticism of appearance is prohibited.
A mother should never call her daughter ugly.
It is impossible to talk about a “big nose” and other external flaws.
Otherwise, the child will have very serious problems.
"Nobody will marry you"
Mom shouldn’t tell her that because of certain shortcomings her daughter “won’t get married.”
This “setting” has a negative impact on the fair sex and often leads to the fact that a woman actually faces loneliness in adulthood.
And you shouldn’t set your daughter up to believe that she “must” get married.
"Don't you dare cry over such nonsense!"
A loving mother will not devalue her child's experiences.
"Trust no one"
Some mothers give their daughters very harmful advice: “You can’t trust anyone.”
Such a recommendation could ruin the girl's life.
Of course, a child shouldn't be too trusting. But you shouldn't tell a child that absolutely everyone around them is bad people.
Earlier we listed parental phrases that irritate children.
