How to Find a Common Language with a Teenager: Simple and Useful Tips for Adults

28.03.2024 18:30

If you are a parent of a teenager, you may have encountered difficulties in communicating with your own child.

Therefore, it is important to know how to cope with the different stages of your son or daughter's growing up, since eye rolling, sarcasm, tense silence or even sudden aggression in teenagers can be all too common.

First of all, mothers and fathers should learn to behave calmly and kindly around a child who is going through a difficult age.

Parents should avoid nagging and complaining.

Also avoid ultimatums, which can complicate the situation. It is necessary to give the child the right to choose, but within reasonable limits. It is necessary to give options and explain your position. You cannot try to pressure with authority.

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Try to explain your point of view with arguments.

Teens need to understand that adults may be genuinely concerned about the situation or their child's safety, and not just wanting to set some rules.

You need to spend more time listening to the child who is discovering the world from a new side.

At the same time, it should be a live hearing, so that he can also share his experiences.

Besides, adults should not close themselves off and keep their lives a secret. Sometimes you can ask a teenager for advice, ask for his help in making a decision.

Earlier we talked about how to prepare a child for a visit to a psychologist.

Olga Kotova Author: Olga Kotova Internet resource editor