Any parent can get confused in a sea of advice. It seems like it's clearer from the outside, but moms and dads think that they know their child better than strangers.
But even experienced parents who want only the best need to learn some things.
For example, who knows how to react correctly to children's mistakes?
Each person has his own nervous system with its own costs and degree of wear.
But in the matter of raising children who in the future will have to become successful people, and not losers, the following points must be excluded.
This is how you shouldn't react to your children's failures.
1. Dwelling too much on a problem or failure, lecturing with the words “if only you had listened to me.”
2. And you shouldn't get too upset because your child has disappointed you. When analyzing the situation, you need to exclude shouting, insults and humiliation, as well as all your bitter disappointment.
3. Even a careless word thrown at a child, like “maladapted” or something else, can leave an imprint for years.
4. Once you have passed this stage, do not remind your child of what happened in the future.
5. Refusing to help or support is also a mistake.
And the worst thing any parent can do is compare their child to someone else's.
Previously, we talked about what kind of parents raise successful children .
