Raising a teenager is very difficult: a teenager often “rebels” and shows disobedience.
However, parents can easily find a common language with their teenage son or daughter.
To do this, it is enough to simply avoid common mistakes.
So, what should mom and dad not do to avoid becoming distant from their teenage children?
Criticize tastes
Some parents don't like the music their children listen to or the clothes they wear.
You shouldn't criticize a child for such things. This will only offend and anger the teenager.
On the contrary, it is better to take an interest in the teenager’s musical and literary preferences. Perhaps you will like something, and you will become real friends with your own child, finding common interests.
Always decide for the teenager
During adolescence, children want to show independence.
Sometimes they need to be given that opportunity. Deciding everything for your son or daughter is definitely not worth it.
Constant accusations
“You’re lazy”, “You’re impolite”, “You’re always sitting at the computer”, “You don’t clean your room”…
If a teenager constantly hears these phrases from his parents, he is unlikely to be in the mood for calm communication.
Yes, sometimes you can criticize a child for something. But on the merits. And then don't forget to praise your son and daughter for solving the problem.
Earlier we named 3 phrases that divorcing parents should not say to their child.
