Self-confidence is of great importance for a child.
Without this quality, a child is unlikely to grow up to be a successful person.
The main thing is that self-confidence does not turn into aplomb and arrogance.
Any mother can rid her child of insecurity. To do this, you need to tell your son or daughter the following phrases more often.
"I understand you"
A child can get upset over the most insignificant reason. But parents should not devalue the child's feelings.
On the contrary, the mother should say that she understands her son/daughter.
In this case, the boy or girl will not come to the conclusion that his thoughts and emotions mean nothing.
"Do you think there is a way out of this situation?"
If one of the family members finds himself in a difficult situation, the mother should ask her child his opinion about possible ways to solve the problem.
In this case, the child will understand that his view of the current circumstances matters. The child realizes that he is taken seriously.
In addition, the child will begin to learn to find a way out of difficult situations. All this contributes to the formation of self-confidence.
"I don't doubt you"
This simple phrase has important meaning for any child.
The baby should feel that his mother has no doubts about his abilities and talents.
"You have achieved a lot"
It is advisable to show your son or daughter that he or she already has many achievements.
Then the child will not have the impression that all his actions were in vain.
"I love you"
Of course, you need to tell your child this phrase as often as possible.
A child will not become a successful and happy person if he does not feel motherly love.
