There is an opinion that women are interesting because of their past, and men because of their future.
However, you shouldn't tell your partner everything about your past (and present), otherwise you risk ruining his interest in you, hurting his feelings and provoking conflicts.
If you constantly emphasize the cost of your shoes or handbag, the guy may think that for you, only financial gain comes first.
And for those couples who have been living together for a long time, such frankness is of no use - the man will most likely be angry because of the unreasonable spending of the common budget.
A man doesn't need to know how much money you leave at the beautician's office. And the fact that your real appearance is somewhat different can push him to the idea that you do not perceive yourself as you are.
Want a long and lasting relationship? Then bite your tongue the next time you decide to tell your partner what your family and friends think of them.
Mastering this skill (that is, keeping this topic a secret) will help avoid disagreements and problems in relationships.