The first date is an exciting event, especially for women.
However, every representative of the fair sex often wants to create a good impression of herself, but at the same time also feel safe and comfortable next to a man.
But sometimes after the first meeting you can understand that a person will definitely not be a good match for you. Here you need to pay attention to three signs.
If a man is inattentive, does not respect your personal boundaries, and also allows himself to behave rudely or immediately makes claims, then you should not continue communicating with such a person.
You should refuse further communication if you notice that the man is also rude to others, for example, making fun of the waiter.
If you are just getting to know each other, and your partner is already hinting at continuing the evening in a more intimate setting, and this was not part of your plans, then it is much better to end the date and go your separate ways.
If a man discusses future marriage or life together from the first minutes of meeting, then this is also a “red flag”.
If he spends the whole evening telling you about his previous relationships, the difficulties in his previous marriage and his experiences, then the date was probably arranged too early, and the man did not have time to get over his previous relationship.
If communication continues, there is a risk of becoming a “vest holder” or even a third wheel.
Earlier we talked about how to avoid an awkward question.