How to Break Up Properly to Avoid Becoming Enemies: 3 Important Rules
Sometimes separation is inevitable, but at the same time it is the best solution to the situation.
In this case, you need to approach this matter correctly in order to preserve warm memories of each other and not accidentally become enemies.
Don't end a relationship with insults or listing what your partner did wrong. This will only ruin the whole situation and your image in the eyes of your ex-partner.
A calmer, gentler approach is needed.
First, you need to choose a comfortable time and place so that no one and nothing can distract you. At the same time, it is better to think about your speech in advance.
You need to try to listen calmly and respond to your partner just as calmly. You need to honestly talk about your thoughts and emotions.
Dialogue should not be built on reproaches and metaphors.
In addition, in the conversation you need to discuss that you are ready to remain in correspondence and continue discussing any issues, since separation is stressful for each party, which means that everyone may need emotional support.
We need to come to an agreement and make the separation as comfortable as possible for both of us, and not just for one of us.
Earlier we talked about how to help yourself during a breakup.
