How Parents' Advice Destroys a Family
When newlyweds begin to live together and build their family, they try to be honest and sincere with each other.
But it happens that their relationship can be ruined by their parents' advice.
It's not often that a girl can say that her mother-in-law treats her like her own daughter.
And so that a woman can know what awaits her after the wedding, she should notice in advance what mistakes her mother-in-law makes when communicating with her future daughter-in-law.
"You came between her and her son" - this is how many mothers react to their son's new passion. Before the girl appeared in the family, the mother-in-law considered her family ideal, because her son devoted so much time to her. And now all his free time is devoted to his beloved, and there is very little time left for his mother.
After all, it was she who cooked food for her child, washed his clothes. And now another lady has taken her place, and she definitely does everything wrong. The mother begins to feel jealous. And she increasingly tries to interfere in her son's relationship with her advice and discontent.
The main mistake of the woman is trying to keep her son close to her. The mother is absolutely sure that the new girl will not be able to surround her son with care and attention.
It is even worse if the man does not see anything wrong with this and takes his mother's behavior for granted. The young man is already used to the fact that his mother always helps him solve problems. She is the main authority for him.
Unfortunately, it is quite difficult to find a way out of this situation. But a girl needs to know that she should not share power with her mother-in-law. A man loves both his mother and his wife, just in different ways.
The best option is to live separately from your parents. If this cannot be avoided, then you need to talk to your spouse so that he can explain to his mother when she should not interfere in the relationship.
You need to cook delicious food for your man every day and keep the apartment tidy. You should also keep an eye on his things, they should be clean and ironed.
You shouldn't speak badly about your husband or quarrel with him in front of your mother-in-law. A mother will always defend her son, and this will only add fuel to the fire. You shouldn't tell all the details of your personal life.
Many mothers, raising their child, have a clear idea of his bride. And when a man brings a girl, the mother thinks that this girl is not suitable for her son.
The mother wants her son to have a good upbringing and a great family. It is better that she comes from a well-off family.
The girl will just have to put up with her mother-in-law and constantly prove that she is a great fit for her son.
Earlier we wrote about why there are more quarrels and conflicts in the family.
