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Why a woman chooses an unworthy man: psychologists named 5 main reasons
12.12.2023 11:27
Surely you yourself have often observed a popular type of misalliance, when next to a beautiful, wealthy and intelligent woman there is an unremarkable man.
Some believe that in this case there can be only one explanation: it is love.
But things are not so clear-cut.
Why a woman might choose an unworthy man
She doesn't consider herself beautiful.
Some ladies are too prone to complexes, so they may not even believe their own reflection. They always think that they are not as beautiful as others.
That's why they choose mediocre men. Experts note that in this case, long-term psychological work on oneself is required.
Lack of choice
When it comes to small towns, it's hard to build a relationship with an ideal partner: you have to choose from what's available. In that case, it's hard to recommend anything.
Some people go to other cities to find a life partner, building a career along the way. But this path is not suitable for everyone.
The man is not as bad as he seems
If you are used to evaluating your partner based on certain familiar indicators (earnings, appearance), then the man may seem unworthy to you.
However, we do not know what criteria other people have. It is quite possible that a woman chose a partner based on his high moral qualities and level of intelligence. In this case, she should not explain her choice to everyone: the main thing is that she herself is happy in the relationship.
Negative experience
Sometimes women repeat the same life scenario, choosing partners of a similar type. This indicates major psychological problems.
However, the lady must realize the problem herself. In this case, she will be able to change her life for the better.
Self-esteem
This point echoes the first one, although it is a bit broader. With low self-esteem, a woman determines her level herself, and not objectively.
That's why the partners next to her turn out to be unsuitable.
Earlier we talked about how to figure out a man who is not right for you .
