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Why You Shouldn't Call a Man First: Experts Name 3 Reasons
08.11.2023 14:36
Many modern women believe that a number of gender rules regarding behavior are outdated.
Therefore, they see nothing wrong with inviting men to meetings, calling them and being the first to confess their love.
However, you still shouldn’t do this: you will find a completely different companion than the one you dream of.
Why you shouldn't call first
You will show that you are more interested in the man than he is in you.
The one who is the first to take the initiative in a relationship tacitly admits his sympathy. It would seem that there is nothing wrong with that? However, you yourself know very well how men begin to behave when they believe that a woman is in love with them.
You can forget about beautiful courtship and worthy actions: the admirer will not even try to impress you, experts note.
You may experience disappointment.
Any woman may feel pain when a man doesn't like her. If your admirer doesn't call you, it means he doesn't have such a desire.
There is no point in making excuses for a man, why he does not call. Therefore, there is no point in dialing his number first. In this case, you will at least protect yourself from disappointment.
You will show that other men don't care about you.
Every man wants to think that he has chosen a woman that others can only dream of. If you call first, it will show that other men are not interested in you.
So let the situation develop smoothly and naturally.
