Having a strange woman trying to destroy the family will not make anyone happy.
However, you can identify this problem almost immediately if you are a little observant.
Therefore, it is important to notice why your spouse is constantly looking for seemingly reliable excuses for his or her absence from the family. Especially if "work piles", "problems with relatives" and "meetings with friends" have appeared in your life together in such a volume quite recently.
It is unlikely that you will be able to conquer and win over your mistress without using money, since courtship requires flowers, gifts, pleasant surprises and other important elements.
Therefore, try to monitor how your family budget is formed more closely.
It is generally accepted that only married women go to a lingerie store to impress their lover. However, men do the same, experts say.
A man cannot help but feel guilty about his actions, so he tries to find at least a formal justification for himself.
Therefore, unexpected nagging from your spouse and criticism of your appearance should make you wary.
If a man has not shown interest in proper nutrition during their life together, it is unlikely that he would be able to acquire new eating habits in one day. As a rule, this means that someone else has managed to "work" on the person.
There is also nothing wrong with a man starting to take care of himself, but it is important to know for whom he suddenly decided to do this.