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Why a man doesn’t give anything at the beginning of a relationship: psychologists have revealed the reasons
20.09.2023 16:00
Showing signs of attention to a girl you like is an important social ritual that has been known since ancient times.
This shows that the man is seriously interested in his companion and is ready to fight for her attention.
But not all modern admirers please their ladies.
Why a man doesn't spoil his chosen one with gifts and signs of attention from the very beginning of the relationship
Doesn't want to invest
Some men even consider small expenses (a cup of coffee, a bouquet of wild flowers, a chocolate bar, etc.) to be quite “serious investments” in a woman.
The amazing fact is that such admirers are ready to "examine" a woman for months in order to find out whether she is worthy of such "investments". This position is extremely humiliating for women.
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If you are just at the initial stage, then it is worth talking frankly with your partner right away. It is quite possible that the man is also going on other dates at the same time, so he does not want to spend money on all his potential companions.
If you agree to take part in such "competitions", then you will have to prove long and hard that you are worthy of at least a bouquet of flowers or an invitation to a cafe.
Difficult financial situation
Romantic feelings can be a pleasant surprise for a man at the most difficult moment in his life. It is quite possible that a person would be happy to please you with gifts, but cannot due to financial difficulties.
You should decide whether to give a chance to a man in a difficult financial situation.
Family tradition
Experts note that such behavior may well be a consequence of the family picture that the man observed since childhood.
If a father never made his mother happy with gifts and signs of attention, then it is difficult for a man to change.
But this means that the previous young ladies "didn't get anything" either.
Ex-girlfriends
Some ladies are extremely picky about gifts, so their inadequate reaction to "inappropriate" presents could discourage a man from ever making his companions happy.
