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Psychologist Stanislav Sambursky explained who the "invisible women" are
24.06.2023 18:36
Beautiful, sexy, kind, loves to cook - a gift, not a wife. It is not easy to find the owner of such data, because sometimes women are in the "invisible" mode. They are worthy candidates for wives, but no one invites them to the altar.
Why does this happen? Psychologist Stanislav Sambursky will answer this question.
What does it mean to turn yourself off
Such women dream of meeting the one. Casual relationships do not interest them, and the list of suitors is far from ideal candidates. Of course, there are those who are ready to spend the night with a stranger for relaxation, but this does not save them from loneliness.
There are also those who are pathologically afraid of men. It gets to the point that even the thought of physical contact causes panic. How to meet someone when your body is shaking, your blood pressure is rising and your vision is dark?
Women often come to me for consultations, for whom a man is a fabulously unattainable object, and he needs to be transferred from the world of fantasy into reality.
How to "turn on" yourself
First, you need to return to an active state and remember the last vivid incident when you experienced sensual arousal.
At first, even it may seem like a dream that did not actually happen. Real trembling, warmth, chills, rapid pulse – everything that excites. And it is not necessary that their source be a person. It could be a film, a book, an event, etc. Then it is important to abstract, freeze, feel the accompanying sensations and remember them. After all, they are the marker of what is attractive and exciting.
Then, on a ten-point scale, you need to scan all the men you know, where 0 is a man who does not evoke any emotions, 10 is one who evokes a range of feelings even from a greeting or a glance. Or, for example, note that up until this point, a work colleague was a common mass, and today his gallant gesture provoked a pleasant shiver.
This is an exercise in which every emotional contact must be recorded. And it does not matter whether the man is married or single, whether he is physically attractive or not. The main thing is to focus on your emotions, to enjoy them and thus to wake up, to come out of a sleeping state.
Result
This is not a hunt, but an opportunity to return to a world where there are no prohibitions on feelings, desires and choice. The exercise helps an infantile woman, waiting for a fairy-tale prince, to stop being one. She becomes real and visible.
Men respond to those who send them the appropriate signals. Without them, a woman dissolves in their visual field. The transition from invisibility to reality opens up a lot of opportunities and the right to choose, which brings the meeting with the one. Often, the partner of a lifetime is nearby.
And what a surprise when it is discovered. If done correctly, the result of the exercise will be visible in a week. The main thing is to believe. Men will notice the changes, and a new life will begin.
