Why Not All Children Need Developmental Clubs: Advice for Parents
There is a type of parents who are simply obsessed with their children's development. Then after school the children rush to study foreign languages, then the swimming pool, then the chess and checkers section, and so on almost every day.
The problem is not that some of the classes may be paid for, but that the child does not need them and, at best, will simply not be of any use.
The experts gave a simple example that allows parents to understand that additional education or development of a child is just a shadow of their own ambitions.
What is the most important thing?
According to experts, the most important thing is for a child to develop correct thinking. He must understand that specific actions lead to a specific result.
The next important point is attention to detail. In the adult world, there is such a term as negligence.
A child must know that if he misses something important, he will not be able to do something well.
And one more important point is responsibility and self-control.
All these points are interconnected with each other and allow us to understand that not every action can benefit the child himself and those around him.
According to many experts, the best example of such upbringing is work and helping parents.
Therefore, before enrolling your child in a new section, it would be a good idea to take a closer look at his interests.
This approach will allow the child to discover his hidden abilities.
Earlier we talked about how good parenting can lead a child to poverty in the future.
