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What 3 mistakes in upbringing were made even by ideal parents: the opinion of experts
27.09.2024 19:10
Even true experts in the field of education are not immune to mistakes in raising their own children.
Any person can make mistakes or make less than ideal decisions based on the circumstances.
However, smart parents will try to understand their mistake and prevent it from happening again.
What mistakes can even ideal adults make?
Sorting out relationships in front of children
Even if we are not talking about a huge scandal with smashing dishes and screaming, children still should not be witnesses to disagreements between their parents.
Therefore, “adult” conversations should be held when the child is not at home.
"Buying" good behavior or grades
We all know that this method does not work because of the wrong motivation, but we can still allow it. If you offer a child to go to his favorite cafe or buy a necessary thing in gratitude for good behavior or grades, then this is a real process of "buying and selling".
Scream
Raising your voice to a child is absolutely forbidden: it causes psychological trauma and other problems. But any person sometimes gets tired of restraining themselves and can yell at children "from the heart".
Despite the fact that such emotional reactions are inevitable, their number should be kept to a minimum.
