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What things can't be in a happy family: 5 anti-examples
08.07.2024 11:59
Considering that most psychological problems have their roots in childhood, it is worth thinking about what should not happen in the family.
First of all, these recommendations concern the relationship between spouses.
Protect, don't "nag"
A healthy relationship is when, when a problem arises, spouses solve it, and do not shift responsibility to each other. Especially in front of the child.
Comparison with others
In healthy families, people do not compare living standards or create unattainable ideals. Nor do they ridicule someone's weaknesses and shortcomings.
The image of the victim
Often one of the partners likes to pretend that if it weren’t for him, the whole family would have fallen apart long ago, that he alone carries the burden of everyday life, solves problems and creates comfort.
In reality, spouses share responsibility for decisions made and correct mistakes together.
Distribution of roles
Another thing that is damaging to the psyche is the division of roles, where a woman must maintain the fire and keep order in the “cave” while her man is “hunting.”
You can avoid drama and resentment if you do everything together and help each other as much as you can.
Total control
Happy families are built on trust, where everyone has a little bit of their own personal space and their own interests, but at the same time common goals are not left aside.
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